Six best reasons for giving gifts

Gifts are not a small way to the human relationship. Send good and proper method, will be happy, whole state; send bad, let a person back to block, touch the mold head, heart block in a few days. So, only to master the skills of a gift, in order to put the whole process of a gift to a beautiful end.
Gifts are the most troublesome thing, nothing better than the other party is unwilling to accept or Yanci refused, or WAN Yu refuse, or after the return, all gifts very embarrassed, make money Sihua, not knot, compensate a lady and fold soldier. Suffices to you. So, how to nip in the bud, send a maybe?? key is excuse for OK, gifts, garden not park, your intelligence should be used in the. The following approach can be used for reference:
1, jiehuaxianfo. If you send native products, you can say is home to a, to each other taste fresh, not many things, and not to spend money, not to buy a single of, please him to accept, in general the recipient that kind cannot return Juli mentality is expected to ease. Will accept your gift.
2, do one thing under cover of another. If you send wine, might as well under the guise of said is others send you two bottles of wine, to drink with each other for common action, please he ready to order. So drink a bottle of a bottle, the ritual, the relationship closer, still without a trace, not bad.
3, lead the way by the horse. Sometimes you want to give gifts. And the other one but it with the pull you eight pole not, you may wish to the recipients of the birth of wedding day invited, a few acquaintances together to congratulate gifts, so that the recipient would not refused, when later that the idea is you must change to your views, with everyone’s effort to achieve the objective gifts associated is indeed the best policy.
4, see. I have something to support Liu Quban, want to send a gift to clear it, afraid of Liu refused to split his face. Zhang’s wife and Liu’s familiar objects, Mr. Chang will play the lady diplomacy, with a gift for lovers to visit, in one fell swoop success, has received a gift, something has to do, best of both worlds. It seems, sometimes circuitous movement as a direct attack can be miraculous.
5, the first to say is to borrow. If you are to send some money or family difficulties sometimes, their self-esteem is very strong, is reluctant to accept help. If you send is, might say, that this thing is put in the home is idle, let him take it first with the future and buy again if you send the money can be said to take some of the first flowers, after again. The recipient will think you are not in charity, later also will be happy to accept. So that you can get to the destination will be reached. Took the opportunity to lay eggs. A student by the teacher favors a lot, always wanted to return but no chance. One day, he happened to find teacher mahogany framed trimmed with calligraphy and painting was actually a picture of rubbings, with elegant room furnishings incongruous. Just, his uncle is the famous calligrapher, he have a gift of calligraphy and painting. He immediately put literally bring the initiative into the frame. The teacher is not only not opposed but also very fond of, the purpose of the gift giving back is finally achieved. If not timely assistance degrees, icing on the cake. Is good.
6, by road bypass. Sometimes gifts do not necessarily own money to buy, and then sent to the large package, in a situation of human is also a gift. For example, you can buy the ex factory price, the wholesale price, the price of the goods, when you buy these things for friends and colleagues, they have to get things, has been to your. Accept the gift as a gift. You have not spent a penny, but to catch the point of human and time, the effect is exactly alike and receive gifts. The recipient for money, collect things when the peace of mind, no worries these are no profits, as a pleasurable occupation.

How to resolve the awkward situation of interpersonal relationship(二)

Then how do you do not wet the bed? ‘he asked me suddenly. ‘I, at the age of fifteen will naturally not enuresis. ‘I have a look at the memory, said,’ when I did not graduate from junior high school, I knew it was good. ‘he broke his finger,’ I’m thirteen years old, and I’ll be fine for two years. Zhi of course! I must say ‘,’ bedwetting is not a disease, to the development of rhyme age, naturally you don’t have to worry. ‘when we get out of the office, he’s more relaxed.
‘then, because of the family, the teacher’s tacit understanding, part of the students finally get rid of the dilemma, learning has made great progress.
Advertising can be said to be an excuse to find a master, that is, in the United States for the first time in the United States in the United States for the first time in the United States, there was such a story. The company has predicted that this coffee, simple and convenient. Will be very popular with housewives. Did not think it did, its sales is no surprise. Regardless of taste, probably because. Use inferior materials and turn out substandard goods The impression is too strong, because in the United States so far, the coffee is in the home from the start of the grinding beans. As long as the hot water will be able to rush out a large cup, how to see how it seems too cheap.
Therefore, manufacturers will be from the simple, convenient and direct direct transfer to the emphasis can be effectively used to save the time of the advertising strategy, stressed. Please save time for your husband and child o
“This change the image of the battle, as the user removes the housewives of so-called” easy things like a flock of ducks. Guilt, because “I use a quick food is not for their own pleasure, but because the time saved can be used on the family. After that, the annual sales volume rose.
Everything has two sides. As for the traditional, behind the children’s thinking is old-fashioned. Which only emphasize on the bamboo and the convenience of espresso, to completely remove the negative impression is very difficult, but if the “discovery. To change one’s opinion, it’s time to save. In short, stressed the negative excuse Xugong, instant coffee will seize the hearts of consumers.
People are so, pay attention to doing things right and proper, you give him a name, he is very happy to do some self deception, deceiving thing, especially when things to their advantage. In fact, alcoholic drink but never asking, “you are the only person, I accompany you to drink, or” death with a gentleman, I will fight in the end. This kind of excuse to achieve the wish, the surface is not active, not simply.
This seems to be the Chinese people’s unique psychological, that is, always look for reasons to shirk responsibility. Even though he knows his own responsibility, he will pass the buck. Use people’s mentality, first for the other ready excuse, each other can’t refuse. For example, when giving a gift to a person, you should say “you are too care for me, I do not know how to appreciate, this is my little meaning, please accept.. As a result of an excuse to reduce the sense of guilt, will gladly accept the gift.

How to resolve the awkward situation of interpersonal relationship(一)

People who do things always have to be right and proper, there is a saying to an account, to find a quiet make an explanation, as if the reason will all have landed. Sometimes people with even to the extent of its reason.
The so-called excuse, in fact, is. No manager. Therefore, an excuse to turn to face, a pair of straight before me. The way we can get away with it. And the time is not to panic and Zhang to explain, only to arouse people’s suspicion and vigilance.
Name “positive”, “language”
There is a middle school teacher, think very well work diplomatically,. Borrow a door. Ability is admirable, he is looking for an excuse to use in the student body effect is wonderful. His class T has a surname Hu students, people are very smart, the test results of the junior high school is the first in the class. But only half a year, the final exam but fell to the class twenty-sixth. The teacher thought, can not find the reason why he regress. Later, he learned that the child is wetting the bed. The bedding was wet and the parents were very angry, and this. Lose face. It makes him feel ashamed. The original is the burden of the spirit of the study results. How to do it? The teacher recalls in an article:
“I think two days, read some books, and finally one day after school, office people are gone, I talk to him. Later, pull a few class. I asked him: I heard you wet the bed, isn’t it? ‘he listens, bass face look red, the head also hangs low. I pulled him toward the side, shook his hand and said “in fact, bedwetting is not what the big deal is a considerable number of people have children, bedwetting teachers have studied teens, but many parents say nothing. He was silent. I continued to say, ‘the teacher, I also had a bed. ‘really?’ he asked me in surprise. ‘how is not, and continue to junior high school graduation. Sometimes two or three times a night, sleep, I was anxious to die, everywhere I go to the bathroom, to find a corner, pull the pants on the urine, the result is a bed of urine. Oh, I’m the lucky, too. ‘he seemed to find a bosom friend, feelings of shyness disappeared. Then, we have a word from you I ” by the urine, said something funny, laugh together then we have no teachers don’t like two ‘friends’ exchange of experience in the urine.

Focus on the other

The eyes focused on the other in July 1807, Napoleon and the Russian emperor Alexander Thi met in Till Asi Te. Austria queen Louisa also came here, want to ask Napoleon to return to the north of Austria to Magdeburg. A meeting, Louisa queen first appreciated Napoleon’s head. Lennon Caesar, then her charming and bluntly asked Napoleon to return Magdeburg to. Napoleon also not good face to face, but can not easily agree. He didn’t phone words to praise the Queen’s clothing to look good, want to change the subject. Queen Louisa has been back. At this time, we have to take the fashion to do the subject? ‘she asked again, Napoleon and use some of the words to deal with her. Queen Louisa repeatedly begged Napoleon to the attitude of humility and sincerity, make Napoleon somewhat shaken. At this time, Austria Forsyth king came in, Napoleon tone down cold spot.
At the end of the party, Napoleon to Queen Louisa as decent a rose. The queen got a sudden inspiration, said I could think it is a symbol of friendship, I request has been cast consents? Napoleon early alert, always irrelevant remark chakai topic the. Queen Louisa did not achieve the purpose, sadly and go.
Diplomatic occasions, the important is adhere to their principles and position, should not make concessions will not relent, and also do behave properly and does not lose the etiquette, this is a superb art. The Queen’s face can not be too straight in open field to barge, accounted for someone else’s site, but not a glorious thing, and a quarrel will be more ugly Napoleon to transfer a topic, reach the magical effect of modesty.
Thus,. To the left and right and to the left and right and. Is a very effective method of modesty, it can divert people’s attention, to practise deception can delay at the same time, others to quell the anger and avoid confrontation, maintenance on both sides of the face to. There are many degrees of King Gu Zuoyou ‘face blind technology, can handy topic. If you can not find a suitable topic, gag twitched Xiandan, cute laugh, also can.
For those who use this method, we have no way to deal with it.
In daily life, some people encounter people come to ask him to act, will produce a sense of superiority, talk, more pull more far. Or, the other is Tong said some irrelevant words, consumption to meet the time, eventually refuse, prevarication. Such a person is the most difficult to persuade. Such as in the general approach to the other side of the meter. But the silence, equal to admit that the other side of the upper hand. To deal with these difficult people, must never interfere with his. The best way is to say “there’s a reason”. ‘is that right?. Things like to interrupt, or is it something else: note. These actions will interrupt his logical thinking, the flawed, so as to get a chance.
This psychological skill is often used in Western parliamentary debates. The officials said the Council was prepared in advance, and it was not easy to destroy their logical thinking. Have experience of members will be in favor of what officials say is everything, and size up the situation, seize the opportunity to break his a series of topics, the principle of collapse, to tell the truth. To deal with the endless, eloquent, this method is especially magic. He tore at idle and light, you have to talk about the topic, you come to me to contest and Korah face quarrel, no mouth Kung Fu and unique way of thinking is not enough. May have qooco.