Ask for work, psychological offensive and talking technology have an inestimable role, it can make you more smooth or with smaller cost to achieve the objective. People have the propensity for the same or a bosom friend, to make the other side will you soul mate must cater to, and never annoying, called a tiresome.
On outgoing, sociable, in office and have a talk with them generally will not have any side effects, while the introverted, timid, sensitive, suspicious people are prone to side effects. At this time, we should change the environment, in the outdoor courtyard, just to talk, so easy to achieve the purpose of persuasion.
The claimant only talk about yourself, does not stop said “please help me, please help this kind of words, can let a person feel extremely impatient.
If you want to make your request to the other side, it should be willing to listen to the other side of the gesture, such as listening to others, listening to others will be willing to listen to you.
Conversation materials don’t always platitudes, or circles home and mahjong in the scope, so not only easy to make tired of each other, but also imposed. Unable to expand the scope of the conversation, it can not further make the other person to understand their own, but do not have to say with each other deeply contact.
Whether it comes to what problem should put their eyes and brain thinks communicate to each other, to any question can: original insights are most important.
But do not indulge in verbiage, what are used to show their. In daily conversation, the average person is said to have some of the things around, this may be a kind of want to say to each other. In the formal conversation, it is best not to put the wife, children as a conversation. Some habits of about a few words seriously, the topics pulled to his wife and children, Qiu such as housework, can not be regarded as a good conversation.
Talk first from the political, economic and other more serious topic, and then related to literature, art, personal interests and other more relaxed topic. In short, to see the concept of the church is being published, making each other have a common idea, is the best conversation.
Language to talk to each other’s culture and choice, ‘to do, can be elegant and vulgar, it will not have the feeling of the alien.
A man who is good at conversation, he will pay attention to politeness, with words, not to speak out of time, because he knows that inappropriate words tend to hurt others, even if it is too late to make up for. On the contrary, if you behave well, the attitude is very mild, the Secretary to the sound, the two sides will naturally be able to talk about speculation, respectively, after each other will miss.
So in order to make the other side of you have a good impression, you must speak good, before the speech to consider, do not think about what to say what, so that the people do not know why. Deng some outspoken friend usually to raise his own style of thinking is cautious, cut can not be Qiu spitting like the week country is where just blurt out, is will be looked down upon by others.
Since the claimant, mostly work and life difficulties and crises, than if the home is sick, marital discord, career is not going smoothly, these because of the home will make people submit to itch, loss of confidence, not only affect mood and influence and around people’s communication. In a low mood, the request of others can be placed in the care of a helping hand, can be understood, but do not bring over the depression of the emotions to others. Ask for work is always a sad face, will make people feel bad.