Some fish are a living bird, the mouth of the shape of a straight, up and down the two part of the long and broad. Devour the food, and some of them are frequently the tossed the fish caught up into the air, let the head in the direction of the down tail down, then catch swallowed, so eat can the fish in through the throat, the shark fin bones from front to back down, not the card in the late of the larynx.
Philosophy of life, to ask for work also will encounter all sorts of “thorn”, this time will not be able to “offbeat”, but should try to pocket a circle, around a detour to avoid the nail. This is a man should have the strategy and means. Even with faded feathers of the bird will be “the fish upside down to eat”, smart people want to be shirtless, unibet nails, let thorn stuck in the throat?
An editor to the famous scholar Qian Zhongshu soliciting contributions is a circle, successfully “eat to the fish”, also said “there is nothing thorn. The following is his clever plan to meet the wonderful:
The media scholar Mr. Qian Zhongshu rendered so eccentric temperament. A few years ago, I had been involved in compiling the dictionary of local celebrities. My colleagues said, money the old material is not easy to get, write letters all sounds such as crane. The editor is also to this big headache. I want to take a chance, because the vehicle in front of the cover, the special act without publicity.
The reason why I decided to give it a try. Because I of old money works and academic understanding, since his masterpiece, has been published since 1961, Mr. name engraved mind, chasing Mu so far. Two, money Mr. Qian Sunqing’s uncle is my school former old headmaster. With this two, I build up confidence. Since the degree of anonymity, the first move back and throw a stone to clear the road.
The old couple money elegant taste, often laugh, humor, and joy. MS Yang Jiang said her husband as “old money black dogs wit”, this money from the puzzle fit old word “Silence” split into. I venture to name two for their series lamps first present change, then the statement for the performance of his uncle. Soon received a reply, be transported with joy. A joint card, blue Kim, solemn and elegant. Especially the old postcard money sign, write three words, have full, unique style. Money is not so straightforward nature! The eccentric old rumors
Both have long, and Wang shu. So he sent a letter to the committee the folks of emotionally attached to their feelings, first lift the alma mater for “the first series,” no money old entries debt annoying words, debt and refused to buy the dictionary); then the local historical Longtao frequent appearances, characters do not appear, opera singing out of the situation, and so on. I hope they give first-hand information. Soon after, the reply: “I acknowledge your letter. We to the domestic and foreign celebrity biographies request material supply, totally thanks, occasionally about our entry, out of their self. Not make an exception for you.” Sometime, and eat cold-shoulder treatment.
Think if place oneself in others’position, refuse nobody, often entertaining, would be disastrous for the. The principle of their own physical and the old man, One principle runs through it all. It will inevitably lead to lopsided, spiritual dilemma. Hometown love is deep, also cannot rashly break “method”. At first glance, no doubt the fine mountains multiply and streams double back, since the supply of materials, why not another way. The “self” in the draft, review, not to finish the task of soliciting contributions. There is a way out. So the money the old leather material into a biography, with some questions, please be sensitive letter. In reply: “after reading be very upset in the future as brush up release, back. In the name of a group of mostly brushing, “out of style.” And revised Lan Tian (Lantian) of the batch. Overjoyed! So far over the task of soliciting contributions. Tongren all be overjoyed. The money from the old man hold “anger and stereotypes of Wei”, although “temperature”, over a period, still without losing the Santa Claus, perverse have
By the above examples, the people who are in awe of each other, before making a request, it is best to take a circle, to mention his interest or current situation, make each other feel “this person seems to know me” and deepen his impression.